this is not only useful for close relationships:
The Value of Prospective Reasoning for Close Relationships
- Alex C. Huynh1⇑
- Daniel Y.-J. Yang2
- Igor Grossmann1
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1Department of Psychology, University of Waterloo, Waterloo, Ontario, Canada
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2Child Study Center, Yale University, New Haven, CT, USA
- Alex C. Huynh or
Igor Grossmann, Department of Psychology, University of Waterloo, 200
University Avenue West, Waterloo, Ontario,
Canada N2L 3G1. Emails: alex.huynh@uwaterloo.ca; igrossma@uwaterloo.ca
Abstract
We examined how adopting a future (vs.
present)-oriented perspective when reflecting on a relationship conflict
impacts the
process of reasoning and relationship well-being.
Across two studies, participants instructed to think about how they
would
feel in the future (vs. present) expressed more
adaptive reasoning over a relationship conflict—low partner blame,
greater
insight, and greater forgiveness, which was then
associated with greater relationship well-being—for example, more
positive
versus negative emotions about the relationship and
expectations that the relationship will grow. These findings were
driven
by a decrease in person-centered language when
reflecting on the conflict. Implications for understanding how tempo
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