Women significantly hid more being the victim of sexual assault & that they had practiced/were interested in BDSM/kink play; men kept secret that they had engaged in sex with multiple partners at the same time

Gender Differences in Sex Secret Disclosure to a Romantic Partner. Keely Fox, Alexandria M. Ashley, Lacey J. Ritter, Tara Martin & David Knox. Sexuality & Culture, Jun 1 2021. https://rd.springer.com/article/10.1007/s12119-021-09880-3

Abstract: This research investigated whether there are gender differences in revealing sex secrets to a romantic partner, including the number and type of secrets kept; method of disclosure; and outcome of that disclosure. Analysis of data from a 39-item Internet questionnaire completed by 195 undergraduate students revealed that over a third (36%) of respondents reported having one or more sex secrets, with gendered differences in the type of sex secrets being kept. Analyses revealed that women hid being the victim of sexual assault and/or that they had practiced or were interested in BDSM/kink play significantly more often than men. Men, by contrast, kept secret that they had engaged in sex with multiple partners at the same time (i.e., a ‘threesome’) significantly more often than women. Women hid their sex secrets because they feared their partners would not understand their past actions; men worried that their romantic partner would disapprove of their secret behaviors, whether understanding such experiences or not. Overall, both genders reported that disclosing sex secrets to their romantic partners had a positive outcome, individually and interpersonally.

Check also “Thanks for Telling Me”: The Impact of Disclosing Sex Secrets on Romantic Relationships. Lacey J. Ritter, Tara Martin, Keely Fox, David Knox & Susan Milstein. Sexuality & Culture, Jan 18 2021. https://www.bipartisanalliance.com/2021/01/disclosure-of-sexual-secrets-almost.html